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Showing posts with label Experience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Experience. Show all posts

Thursday, January 1, 2026

A Beginning - EXCITEMENT ~ Theme for January 2026


 


Excitement is…….

Xiphoid process is for 

Cheer and Charm were…

Intention speaks…….

Thought-provoking sparks…

Enthused about…..

Magnetism doesn’t get…….

Experience of……

Naughty and nice….

Tasty treats tempt us….




“Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.”

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Saturday, October 11, 2025

Book Review: Prisoners of the Castle: An Epic Story of Survival and Escape from Colditz, The Nazi’s Fortress Prison by Ben McIntyre

This was a disturbing and compelling read. Compelling because Ben McIntyre told one story of World War II: the prison camps, the treatment of prisoners, the attempts to get food supplies in by the Red Cross, the underground networks of resistance fighters in towns, villages and abroad. Disturbing because of the parallels I could see to any war zone, and specifically to today’s global troubles. 


In October 1939, the German Army established OFlag IV C prisoner of war camp in Colditz Castle. It held the most recalcitrant and defiant Allied prisoners. The intent of most of the prisoners was escape. Ben McIntyre takes us inside Colditz to tell us all the ways and means that the men used to attempt to escape. Only a few were successful and one man was shot in his attempt to escape. This book is complete with photos of the men, maps of the inside of Colditz Castle, maps of Europe with the escape routes and the many hidden rooms, the various pieces of paper and wood used for the construction of identification cards and fake guns. Besides the escape attempts, there was a wide range of activities for entertainment: plays and lectures put on by the prisoners. Due to a lack of women, men were dressed and dolled up for parts that required a woman. Some prisoners, called the Prominente, were Allied soldiers of good parentage or stature believed to be ‘bargaining chips’. They were given their own tiny rooms, got marginally better food and were carefully protected from escape. 


In 1945, the Allied prisoners traded places with their jailers as the war was coming to an end. The American troops, young men in their 20’s, were approaching the castle preparing an assault to overtake it, when they realized that the men in charge were the Allied prisoners. The German soldiers were turned over without a shot being fired to the arriving American troops.


The photo on the front of the book cover is of six of the men who did survive Colditz Castle. Their post war history is also included at the end of the book. Author Ben McIntyre’s writing held my attention and my interest. It was not all about escape but about the characteristics of the men on either side of the war. 


“In the intimate confines of Colditz, that enemy was becoming ever more familiar. On a battlefield, the foe is anonymous. 

In a prison, he has a face, a name and a personality.”

~ Ben McIntyre, Prisoners of the Castle, 

An Epic Story of Survival and Escape from Colditz, 

The Nazi’s Fortress Prison



Title: Prisoners of the Castle: An Epic Story of Survival and Escape from Colditz, The Nazi’s Fortress Prison

Author: Ben McIntyre

Copyright: 2022

Publisher: Penguin Random House

Format: Hard copy

Type: Historical non-fiction

ISBN: 978-0-7710- 0198-0

ebook ISBN: 978-0-7710- 0198-7

Sunday, August 31, 2025

The Beauty of Age

Age, quite simply, 

is but a number. 


A number I quite approve of, 

like the number on a calendar, 

    on a list, 

    telephone numbers,

    street numbers and 

    anything counts.


We do count our days, 

the weeks that pass, 

the years that add up but ~

we sometimes fail to add up

the experiences of each of those days.


Most are not momentous, 

some bring stunning joy, 

some deep sorrows, 

many days just ordinary but all

are the warp and weft of life


Age, quite simply, is but a number.

The beauty of age is the fabric 

that has been woven for good or ill.


“Weave beautifully your small thread in the grand tapestry.”

~ Gordon B. Hinckley

(1910 - 2008)

Friday, June 20, 2025

Tangled


 

All life that flows from 

everyone and everything; 

seems loose and 

with out anchor. 

Yet their roots 

bound to each other 

beneath 

the ground of experience.




“Roots are not in landscape or a country, 

or a people, they are inside you.”

~ Isabel Allende

Friday, June 7, 2024

Shaded


Experience changes 

colours and depths of belief,


brings nuance into one’s life

just as the trees in spring 


grow from their winter sparse

to soft and brilliant green


to offer us shade in the heat

just as experience offers 


the shade of knowing about

the nuances of many lives.


When we step out of that shade

we risk a brittle, arrogant life.


Experience and willingness 

can change colours and depths of belief.


“The spectacles of experience; through them 

you will see clearly a second time.”

~ Henrik Ibsen, Norwegian Poet 

(March 20, 1828 - May 23, 1906)

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

Bridging with Storytelling

World Storytelling Day reminds us that storytelling is a human quality. Before the written word, stories were an important part of the human experience. With each turn of the historical wheel, stories of our past, stories from mythology, and children’s story could vanish if it weren’t for storytellers, and organizations like Storytelling Alberta. Tonight, I’ve listened to some of these stories as told to us from Ethiopia to Alberta to America through the bridge of present day Zoom technology. Wisdom, personal strength, forgiveness, humour and personal journeys were shared in the backdrop of personalities, cultures, beliefs and differences. It was an absolutely wonderful evening.                                                                    

“Stories have to be told or they die, and when they die, 

we can’t remember who we are or why we’re here.”

~ Sue Monk Kidd, author


p.s. - the first Storyteller was my sister Betty!

Wednesday, December 20, 2023

Found: A New Eatery!

What a nice surprise! A pair of us roam around Regina to different venues for coffee and a bite to eat now and then. Today, roaming didn’t take me far from home! In the Viterra Building, at 2625 Victoria, between Angus St and Albert Street, Tarragon Restaurant has been open for about two months. The service is excellent and the decor beautiful. The very pleasant manager came to our table to welcome us to Tarragon. 


A first time visit to this Asian restaurant, we only had coffee and a croissant breakfast sandwich, however their menu looks intriguing for future visits! The menu can be found on their website that I've listed below. We were treated to macarons made in house ~ beautifully decorated and delicious. 


With the grand windows and lovely tables, it also looks like a perfect place for me to take a book or get a writing session in while having a delicious lunch. Even on the busiest of days, restaurants and coffee shops are good places for me to take my reading and/or writing for a treat.


“Food is not just eating energy. It’s an experience.”

~ Guy Fieri






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Website: tarragon7.wordpress.com

Friday, June 10, 2022

Burst or Bloom

When I was just a prairie farm kid, it was exciting to move from town to farm and back every year. Standing in the back of the big grain truck as it lumbered for one more load of our household. That was before I had full responsibility for myself, let alone living in a large family. Over the years, moving from home to home, apartment to apartment, excitement lost its shine til it was as dull as old cardboard. Moving has become increasingly difficult, costly and, quite frankly, annoying. 


I had always thought that excitement was something like an explosion, bursting in sparks and bright colours. Moving into adolescence, it dulled and darkened. As an adult, I’ve many times been afraid of excitement because I didn’t understand it. That it did not have to be an explosion. That sparks die out quickly and bright colours fade in the sunlight. 


This last few weeks, I’ve come to understand excitement in a very different way. Excited, I’ve had to follow a time-line for this next, and very likely, final move. I had not believed it could even be possible. The recent news projections about mortgage rate hikes in the future has not dampened my excitement. It has stayed with me, growing slowly from roots of experience and remembering. Instead of being afraid of excitement, I have savoured it each day with joy.


“It is never too late to relearn, to change and to get memories for life.”

~ Eva-Maria Hedlin, Scam Story













Wednesday, November 18, 2020

Chapter Two, Episode Eight - A Cautionary Tale - Situationally Theirs

Review, Revision, Edit and Update
The most obvious change needed was the addition of a photo image. Using a rather convoluted technique, I have adapted to computer changes on my laptop. 

The written changes to Brigitte's story were mostly minor, except in the second paragraph:  Sentence structure, realignment of sentences to create an improved flow. In Brigitte's story, which I treat much like dialogue and don't wish to change much, I did note a couple of verb tenses that Brigitte would not have used and corrected them. 

I questioned the title of this piece as not incredibly appropriate, however am leaving it as is. The caution may be related to her experience with Mrs. Beaufort (Emelina).

A Cautionary Tale

A
lthough Brigette Smithson had only been at the Beaufort Estate for almost five years, she had lived almost two lives. At least that’s how she thought of it. The first four years had tested her commitment to a paycheque. That’s how she thought of it…..to start with. Brigitte had had a variety of jobs - tree planting, waitressing, being a nanny, anything that kept a roof over her head and the lights on. When she ran out of jobs and living options, she returned from her wanderings to live with her parents. She needed a paycheque. Unemployment insurance was barely enough to pay her parents rent. They had not asked her to pay rent, but she had insisted. “I’m haven’t come back here to live off of you. Put it in the bank, go on a holiday but I’m paying rent and if I can I’ll help with groceries. I’ve cleaned a lot of houses since high school so that’s another thing I can do to earn my keep.” 

Brigitte's turn to tell more of her story was interesting for her. She had never written much about her life except in letters home to her parents. After talking with them, she spoke with Martha, the housekeeper that hired her and Cook, who kept her well fed about what to write. Writing was something she enjoyed. On her travels, she had always found time to write some little thing, penning poems and stories or just describing the landscape. Settling on the first four years at the Beaufort Estate, she decided on a short autobiography. 

~~~~~


I needed a job. Studying the classifieds every day and sending out resumes was just not getting me anywhere. It was a pretty odd resume: nanny, tree planting, pumping gas, waiting tables, cleaning houses, dishwashing. There were more, but none except the two years I spent as nanny, seemed very respectable. But I enjoyed every one of them. The people I met, the places I traveled to. In the summer, when I was tree planting, sitting outside with the rest of the planters in the evening was amazing. Someone brought a guitar, I had a little hand drum, another guy had a panpipe. We’d have a bonfire to keep the flies and mosquitoes away and roast wieners and marshmallows. It’s a pretty romantic memory - and there was romance on those evenings - but it had a glow around it that pushed away the drudgery of our work. But I digress, I needed a job now that I was back in Hartley with my parents. Twenty-nine years old with very little to show for myself. It was time to buckle down. But to what. After another unsuccessful job search, sending out resumes, walking the sidewalks and being rejected, I was so depressed that I was ready to go on the road again. Dad had been reading the paper as usual after supper one evening.  “Brige. Did you see this job in the classifieds? You’ve circled several other places, but not this one. The Beaufort Estate. I know their chauffeur, Giles Thornton. He tells me the pay is good, with benefits, and everyone’s pretty nice out there. He doesn’t have much good to say about Mrs. Beaufort but he likes the pay.” 


“What kind of a job is it dad?” Brigette had seen it, but it hadn’t held her attention. She wanted something in town.


“Well, there’s some housecleaning and being a ‘Lady’s Maid’. I haven’t heard that title for a long time, except on that Upstairs Downstairs series. What do you think, honey?”


“Well, dad, I might just as well check it out. I don’t have to take it, but if your friend says good pay and benefits, it sounds good.”


~~~~~


I called the Beaufort Estate….Digby and Martha interviewed me. I thought it was strange that a huge mansion had a butler, a housekeeper, a cook and a gardener and they were hiring me… all for one person: Mrs. Emelina Beaufort. Digby was all business. Hours and salary, vacation days and benefits. Martha was warm and chatty. She very diplomatically told me that ‘Mrs. Beaufort, only 47 years old!, is still in deep grief for Mr. Michael, her husband that passed not long ago. She can be quite a handful.” Everything seemed in order, Mrs. Beaufort’s condition didn’t bother me, that is until I was looking after her. Lady’s Maid was definitely the right title. I didn’t know that I’d have to wear a silly maid’s uniform. Even Miss Em - that’s Mrs. Beaufort - said they were silly. At the time though, if I tried to leave the frilly cap at home, Martha always had a spare. At least they were laundered with the Estate laundry, so I didn’t have to worry about any ironing. I found out later that Miss Em really didn’t care about the uniforms that much. It was her mother-in-law that tried to really have an upstairs downstairs environment. Getting back to the work, Miss Em really wasn’t very well. She ate like a bird or not at all, she only got out of bed for her appointments and functions, and her moods were all over the place. My experience waitressing and nanny to four unruly children really paid off. In the mornings, after she had had her tea in bed - Martha or Cook brought it upstairs - I served it to Miss Em as though she was royalty. Then, after she showered, I did her hair, nails and makeup, but it was like dressing a Barbie doll. I never knew what mood she was in. Many days, she didn’t care what she wore, other days she knew exactly what she was going to wear, right down to the jewelry and shoes, and then there’d be the days when she didn’t like anything. The dress was the wrong colour or made her look fat. The diamond earrings looked ‘wrong’ and she would fling them across the room. I think that the only thing that prevented her from crumbling were the appointments and functions that she attended. Miss Em tells me that I was her rock, but I just treated her with kindness because I could see she was a real mess inside. Oh, I was firm with her and didn’t let her railroad me. If she cried, I just let her cry, sat with her if she wanted and washed the tears from her face. When she got angry and started to shriek at me, I would just leave the room. In all the jobs I’ve had, the four years taking care of her tested every lesson I ever learned. The other part of my job description, housecleaning, was easy in comparison. 


Then the COVID19 pandemic hit us and I had to leave Mrs. Beaufort. I worried about her and really didn’t know how she would manage. When we met again after several weeks apart, it was Miss Em that I met. The Mrs. Beaufort I knew had turned into Miss Em. Lovely and kind - and can dress herself. I still work for her, but I am now a Personal Assistant to her. I no longer have to do any housekeeping, because I accompany her to lawyers and accountants and help her make plans for the Estate. Both of us are still learning. 


~~~~~

Brigitte read over her story, folded it, put it in an envelope and slid it into a pocket of her briefcase. “I’ll have Miss Em read it over tomorrow. Or maybe not.”


“Experience is the teacher of all things.”

~ Julius Caesar

Sunday, August 16, 2020

Chapter One, Episode 141 - Experience and the Teacher - SituationallyTheirs

Review, Revision, Edit and Update
In many of the books about writing I've read, a character should go through a process of growth. In this episode, although not a short story, my writing exercise addresses this growth issue. The main character, Matt Hamilton, begins as the teacher. In the middle of the scene is questioning the ability of his students, and at the end he becomes the student. 

Without changing the intent of this writing, I did tighten up some sentence structure along with some other minor fixes (punctuation, typo's)

Experience and the Teacher

“Hold it as if it were a baseball - just like that - in the palm of your hand. Now. Lift it up - gently Gently. Twist and pull. No, no don’t tug, pull gently. You don’t want to bruise the fruit or damage any branches.” Matt Hamilton was not used to educating teenagers about picking apples. Joey Tucker and his friend, Steven Whitley, had been hired to pick the Beaufort Estate
’s apples. Dez had called her friend Matt in a panic when she found out that neither of the teens that she had just hired knew anything about picking apples - unless it was a windfall apple or an apple in the produce department of a grocery store. Matt’s own seasonal pickers had completed their two week Covid19 isolation and were set up to start the pick of Matt’s orchard. They had been with him for several years, so he was able to leave them on their own for a day. Dez had told him it would ‘just be a couple of hours’, however after talking with them for just a few minutes, he guessed he’d be at the Estate til at least after lunch. Joey put his hand up tentatively. “How do we know if they’re ripe enough to pick, Mr. Hamilton?” Matt scrubbed his forehead. Where did Dez get these two guys? He took a deep breath, smiled stiffly and said “There are several ways. I’ve told Miss Eliot - Miss Dez - how to do a starch test for ripeness. So she can tell you, but there are one or two other things that, while not as certain, can help you when you’re up in the tree picking.”

~~~~~

After Matt had shown Joey and Steven how to put on the apple picking bags, how to handle the apples and then how to put them in the bin at the edge of the orchard, he directed each of them to a fairly short tree. He didn’t know what he was going to tell Dez. Friends for years and, recently, in a very on and off relationship, they always relied on each other for support. “Dez, I don’t know if these two guys are going to work out.” He rehearsed his little speech on the other side of the toolshed. Where was Samuel when he needed him? Looking up, he saw him leaning on his hoe watching him, a rather wicked grin on his face. Samuel was having fun! “What’s so funny, Samuel?” 

“You are, Matt. I seen you tryin’ to teach them two boys about apple pickin’. Patient. Patient.” Samuel had, in fact, been impressed with Matt’s teaching ability. “They’ll do just fine, Matt.” He leaned his hoe up against the toolshed. “How old were you when you started pickin’, Matt?” Matt grinned and squatted by the tomato plants, looking them over and, lifting a heavily laden limb, he secured it to the tomato cage with a tie from his shirt pocket. He turned and looked at Samuel. “Now, what’s that got to do with anything? I was almost seventeen. It was my first job……..” Matt shook his head. “You got me there, Samuel.” Matt stood up and tossed a clod of dirt at Samuel, who caught it easily. He tossed what was left of it back at Matt. Matt pushed his cap back on his head, ran his fingers through his hair and, holding it front and back, pulled it down again. He said to Samuel “I guess I’d better go tell Dez that I’m keeping an eye on them for a while to make sure they’re doing the job right. Thanks Samuel, you’re a good man.”

“Nothing ever becomes real ’til it is experienced.”
~ John Keats